OMG! His parents think because I make money I should pay for his bills!?!?!?
My boyfriend and I live in his parents house. I been here for about a year because I got pregnant. He got a car and since his sister works for farmer insurance she got him on insurance without even mentioning it until the first bill came… I paid for that since he has no job obviously. So I save money and waste money because I get paid good. Today I was laying down with our baby while he got ready to go spend family guy time with his cousins and friends and play basketball and his sister came waddling and started cursing him out to pay her. Then she’s all "I see you have no job and wasting money on all this crap (>fixing the car, clothes, HEALTHY food because they live off pig grease and fat<) and you can’t pay me" They know it’s my money. I MADE IT CLEAR I WASNT RESPONSIBLE AND WASNT PAYING FOR IT. He understands but obviously they don’t. The point is they expect me to pay and buy stuff that isnt my resposibility. I pay for some utilitys and take care of my child and his needs. WTF?!
6 Responses
OhLaLa
10 Mar 2010
bebe
10 Mar 2010
Maybe they just want you to contribute a little bit more to them financially? Or they’re just being selfish. Explain to them if they don’t think that you give enough, you can move out.
T
10 Mar 2010
Time to leave.
Tapestry6
10 Mar 2010
You like living with a loafer?
Girl your self esteem must be in the basement!
Get the heck out of there!
You want to pay for him the rest of his life?
lyssaloser
10 Mar 2010
thats not right….its completely unfair because you have your own family to support….maybe you should try telling them again? i’ve never had to deal with something like that since i’m only 13…but i think that maybe you should try to make it even more clear because obviously they dont get it….you could tell your boyfriend to get a job, or just move out. if they really care for you they’ll try to understand, and they wouldnt want you to move out
Debbie
10 Mar 2010
why don’t you solve every ones problems and move out leave the no good bum and his family behind . make a life for you and your child before the child grows up believing this is normal behavior for an adult
Seriously…WTF?! You’re boyfriend needs to tell his family off or something since he understands that you’re not responsible for all that other stuff. He needs to find a job, even if it means flipping burgers. If I were you two, I’d do my best to move out of there. It’s never healthy living with the family in law. I’ve seen many households come apart. Other than that, you just worry about yourself, your beautiful baby, and loving your boyfriend.